ext_328267 ([identity profile] wildela.livejournal.com) wrote in [personal profile] oksani 2007-08-19 02:11 pm (UTC)

Re: Clothes

Well, when I miscarried before, we told too many people I think. It was nice to have the support of close friends/family, but months later when people we hadn't told about the miscarriage asked about the pregnancy, it was awkward. Plus, telling Aaron's folks will subject me to too many weeks/months of pestering excitement and telling my folks this early will cause my mother to start to worry WAY too soon, and that will drive me crazy. If I tell her I feel okay, she'll worry that I'm about to miscarry b/c I'm not hormonal enough. Seriously, that's the way she is. So I think we'll try to hold off til at least 8 weeks, but we'll see my parents at 7 weeks, and it may be hard to hide if I'm not drinking much caffeine or alcohol, the two cornerstones of a balanced beverage diet for me. Aaron's suggestion is to "carry around a glass of wine and just not drink it." That's just cruel and unusual.

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